12 Goals for 2019

It’s that time of year again. So here, without apology, are my goals for 2019!

My theme this year is simple, Dream Big!

  • More time on my phone at the expense of relationships and the ongoing (and boring) parade of reality.
  • Raise my “multi-tasking game” to double digits, so I get nothing accomplished while being busy all day long, every day.
  • Listen to ONE song recorded after 1991 by an artist that got their start after the 1970s.
  • Stop saying, “www dot” when providing a web address to friends and family.
  • Finally, surrender and give debit cards a try (but keep my checks for when that doesn’t work out…which it won’t).
  • During the holidays, when I see the parking lot is packed, walk to my car and take an extra 10-15 minutes to pull out. Even longer at Costco.
  • Use apps for purchases, eliminating the need to ever make eye contact (or interact) with anyone at Starbucks ever again. I don’t want a relationship with someone who makes my coffee. I am that big a deal.
  • Become known at the dog park as “the guy who never picks up after his dogs!”
  • Devise a get-rich scheme by regularly playing “scratchers” every time I step into a convenience store. That’s gotta work! And, while I’m at it, why don’t I also play the Lotto so I can make everyone wait in line while I see if any of my tickets are jackpot winners!
  • Go on and on (to anyone who will listen) about their need to binge watch a show I haven’t watched. “I heard it’s really good” is sure to generate confidence.
  • Tell everyone, “Olive Garden is the most amazing Italian restaurant! Those breadsticks, O-M-G!”
  • Better yet, why don’t I forget about goals 1-11, and instead focusing on not being such a smartass.

Instead, I can focus on being kind, empathetic, and occasionally funny to those I am lucky to be around. With special effort toward my family, friends, and co-workers who are sometimes “held hostage” by proximity to my sometimes obnoxious personality.

Losing some friends recently is a stark reminder that indeed, time passes and people transition, and it is not on our schedule.

Then there is the speeding of time passing. Suddenly, Riley has three more semesters before college! So fast. Being with him this holiday has been a reminder that every day together with anyone is special. So, Carpe Diem.

I don’t always do it, but, I sincerely try to remember to pause, take it all in, think about the broader context of what is happening and appreciate what is going on at the moment. It’s precious. So, I to directly express this awareness and appreciation. Yes, this includes the Starbucks people. They all do a great job!

Hope 2019 is a great one for all of you, you live some dreams! I also hope our paths cross so I can hear all about it. Heck, I can also share some appreciation during our time together!

Happy New Year!

AuthorJim Stalker

Seeking answers - one post at a time. Sales guy - family guy - thinks a great guitar solo can make the song. Based in Granite Bay CA - where there is plenty of granite and not much bay.